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bulletHow does the sister program work?  Using the new GSCNC camp application system, there is no way to implement a "sisters" program.  It's entirely possible that one girl may get into camp and her sibling may not.  If this happens and it's a problem for your family, you may withdraw the girl who got into and receive a refund as long as you do it by the refund date (see important dates).
 
bulletDoes Camp Crossroads have a buddy program?  Not exactly.  Once your daughter is accepted into camp, and you will be given the opportunity to identify ONE girl as a buddy.  Both girls must be in the SAME program to be buddies - for example both must be Montrose Magpies and the buddy request must be mutual (both girls must request each other).  We'll try to place these girls in the same unit, but no promises.   Sorry, but we don't offer a blind dating service where you can request something like "put her with any other girl from troop 1234". 
 
bulletWhy won't you allow 3 or 4 girls to be buddies?  Well, there are several reasons.  First, one of the goals of GSCNC day camps is for girls to "meet other girls from throughout the Council".  Second, an important readiness indicator is that your daughter is mature enough to "play and work with all girls not just her best friend".  Third, when groups of girls are put together in one unit they quickly form a clique which can have a detrimental impact on the entire unit.  We've also tried "truddies" (groups of three), but that actually creates heartache when the unit leader says "line up by twos" and the three girls have to decide who in the truddy gets "left out".  In July, in 90 degree weather, the least slight can turn into a major dramatic event.  After 14 years of "experiences" we've found that sticking to our "buddies come in pairs" rule works best.  We like to tell girls that their unit is filled with new "best friends" they haven't met, yet!
 
bulletMy older daughter has been accepted as a Camp Crossroads Teen Staff Member. Does that guarantee her younger sister a place at Camp Crossroads. No.  Guaranteed placement is only for the daughters of adult volunteers (adult staff or Helping Hands volunteers).

Revised: 01/09/12 12:41

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